Sunday, August 30, 2020

If someone shows us who they are, believe them, don't vote for them

Embellished military career. Allegedly dodged the draft. Misplaced ballot box. Falsified voter names. Abused Congressional staffers. Commitment to doing as little policy work as possible out of fear of alienating one side or another. Condescending and dismissive toward women. Clear and consistent racist behavior.

While each of these might sound like a laundry list of just how polarized and broken politics and politicians in the United States have become, none of these are new.

I am almost finished re-reading Robert A. Caro's four-volume The Years of Lyndon Johnson. Caro's deftness at capturing behind-the-scenes episodes throughout Johnson's life continues to be one of the best examples of reporting and writing. While the books begin with Johnson's childhood, the later volumes focus on his role as a U.S. Representative from Texas' 10th district from 1937 to 1949, as U.S. Senator from 1948 to 1961, and as 37th President of the United States starting in 1963, upon the assassination of his predecessor, John Kennedy.

I bring up the notion that abysmal behavior in politics is nothing new now because the temptation to dismiss any current instances as just par for the course might exist. You know, that's just politics and how the game is played. Such a temptation should be fought.

If we had given over to accepting past injustices because they've always been with us, then it's likely I would have been dismissed out of hand for several jobs because of my religion or my niece might have faced insurmountable obstacles to voting because of her race; or several other nieces would not have been permitted to serve in the military if their sexual orientation had become known.

Holding politicians accountable for unjust, immoral, misogynistic, anti-Semitic, and racist behavior should be part of our responsibility as citizens and voters. This goes for politicians of any political affiliation. Johnson was a Democrat. Nixon was a Republican. Each engaged in behavior that certainly doesn't represent the best of us. You can certainly add to the list with your own examples, both past and present.

Granted, we are all flawed. It is a ridiculous assumption that we could ever find candidates who have not made a mistake or two along the way. But most of us can discern, for example, the difference between a mistake and a worldview that governs your behavior. The latter should be disqualifying.

If we have evidence that candidates running for office, at any level, have engaged in reprehensible behavior, it seems a low bar to cross them off our list of people for whom to vote.

In his most recent book, Working, Robert A. Caro includes a chapter on how he got people to be candid with him when he interviewed them for his books. The gist of it is that he learned to "shut up" (his words) and listen rather than interrupt. By letting his subjects fill the silence, he got a fuller and truer sense of who they are and what they had to say. We can most definitely take this into our lives as we listen to political figureheads on all sides and attempt to hear what they say, completely divorced from our own opinions.

There's a quote often attributed to Maya Angelou that says: "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." I would add that as they show us unjust behavior, the right thing is to fight to correct such injustices rather than to accept them as a fait accompli.

Jeffrey L. Seglin, author of "The Simple Art of Business Etiquette: How to Rise to the Top by Playing Nice," is a senior lecturer in public policy and director of the communications program at Harvard's Kennedy School. He is also the administrator of www.jeffreyseglin.com, a blog focused on ethical issues. Do you have ethical questions that you need answered? Send them to jeffreyseglin@gmail.com. Follow him on Twitter @jseglin. 

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