There are times when determining who the winner of an event is doesn’t always match up to the final score of the game. Consider the recent Southwest Little League Baseball playoff game between a team from Pearland, Texas, and another from Tulsa, Oklahoma. Whoever won the game would clinch a spot in the 2022 Little League World Series.
Shortly after that game on Tuesday, Aug. 9, news of it went viral, not because of the outcome of the game, but because of an event that occurred in the bottom of the first inning when Isaiah Jarvis of Tulsa was up to bat against Kaiden Shelton of Pearland. Shortly after their faceoff, a clip of part of their exchange was shared widely.
In the video, Jarvis wearing a powder blue uniform, awaited a pitch from Shelton. The pitcher had been doing well against Jarvis, having him at an 0-2 count. One more strike and Jarvis would be out. But the next pitch hit the portion of Jarvis’ batting helmet covering his left ear. His helmet flew off and Jarvis hit the ground. Shelton, the pitcher, can be seen walking off the mound toward the first-base line. Moments later, Jarvis arose after being attended to first by a coach from the opposing team who came to home plate and then a first aid worker. He was applauded by the crowd as he took first base, but pitcher Shelton still appeared to be shaken. In the video, he was looking down at the pitcher’s mound, holding the back of his maroon cap with his right hand, and he appeared to be fighting off tears.
“I thought I really hurt him, and I was really scared,” Shelton later told a Houston television station reporter. “I’m just glad he’s better.”
Before any coaches or teammates took to the mound to console a young pitcher clearly struggling to gain his composure, Jarvis looked in his direction and noticed the boy was in despair. He tossed his batting helmet aside and walked from first base to the mound and, as Shelton was still grasping the back of his cap, Jarvis put his arms around Shelton’s waist and hugged him. As Jarvis pat Shelton on his left shoulder, Shelton’s teammates on the field and his coach walked out to console him as well. Before he turns to walk back to first base, Jarvis reportedly said to Shelton: “Hey, you’re doing great. Let’s go.”
The game continued, but the focus of most people has been on that less-than-two-minute clip of what went down in the bottom of the first inning.
In a post-game interview with a Tulsa reporter, Jarvis acknowledged he wanted to let the pitcher know he was all right when he saw him struggling. “Who knows?” Jarvis asked. “He could have saw me as trying to fight him. I was proud of myself for being brave like that.”
Pearland won the game and moved on to the World Series. But a true winning moment was when Jarvis did the right thing and without hesitation decided a fellow player’s well-being at that moment was the most important thing.
Jeffrey L. Seglin, author of The Simple Art of Business Etiquette: How to Rise to the Top by Playing Nice, is a senior lecturer in public policy and director of the communications program at Harvard's Kennedy School. He is also the administrator of www.jeffreyseglin.com, a blog focused on ethical issues.
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